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I remember when my ex better half ended our affair. Things were going perfect for nearly two years then all of a sudden I got her dreaded call… she only needed to say “We must talk” and I knew precisely what was coming next… “I think we have to have a little time for ourselves”…

I was distraught and puzzled. I did not know what to do then - I tried telephoning nevertheless my calls were never responded to. And she never seemed to get my voicemail as well. I was a absolute mess and just yearned-for somebody to guide me in the right direction… if there really was one!

My life was tossed around in an instant and I could not figure out how come. It was then I began reading… that’s when I stumbled upon a truly intriguing idea that did not came to me before. It’s possible that she was keeping a more distant array of feelings and merely was concealing them with this sad excuse that “We must space”?

So, I did a little further reading and found this fellow named James Kern who seemed to know what I was going through. He mentioned he had been through it before and that he had “cracked the code” to getting her back. His 1 hour video about “The Best Way To Get Her Back” revealed to me WHY she had left me and this video showed me a complete set of blow-by-blow directions to getting her back.

Essentially, here’s the truth about break-ups and getting her back in your life - it IS possible to get her back. As a matter of fact, it may be as simple as merely saying the right words to her at the right moment!

That guy pulled me out off the hole I was in and he’s got a great deal to show you. Find out more about James video here: Can’t Get Her Back? - Click Here!

Ok, you’ve fought, argued, broken up, and now you want to get your ex back.  Is there any relationship advice that will work? Learning some more about these topics can help: study intimacy more deeply can help in lots of ways.

When breaking up, what happens for everyone is that our feelings of closeness and connection with our partner get replaced by emotions like anger or betrayal.  This is why we fight and break up.  It’s just what happens to couples the world over.

But then you started feeling regret.  After a day or a week or two you started to feel like you missed those feelings of closeness and connection.  The angry or hurt feelings started to get replaced by other feelings.  So lets look at this truth about feelings.  For the most part, intense feelings like anger do not last.  They change!

You understand this from your own life experiences.  You’ve been mad at somebody at work and after a day or two the anger diminishes.  You’ve been sad about something that happened to you and again, after just a day or two, it goes away.  This is important Emotional Logic to notice.  Feelings shift and are in flux for all of us.

You know this first hand.  While you were breaking up with your ex, you were angry or very hurt and sad.  Now, those feelings are being replaced, shifting back to desire and longing for the closeness and connection you had with your mate.  Now you want to give it another go.  Your feelings have shifted.  It seems obvious, but the point is important:  feelings change.

However, some feelings can take a while to change.  They can get stuck.  If your ex doesn’t want to get back together with you, then they are still stuck with feelings of hurt or betrayal.  For example, if you cheated on your ex, this brings up strong feelings in them that are hard to deal with.  Your ex is likely still filled with powerful emoitons like sadness and shame or rage.

So how can you use something like Emotional Logic to help get back with your ex?  Simple.  You can help them to vent, to get those bad feelings “off their chest.”  Help them to get them out.  So, when you talk to them, ask how they are feeling about what you did or the break up.  Then try to be quiet and give them time to form up their emotions into words and “vent” them.  Listening is an important step in or to Making Up In Hours.

Don’t argue.  Don’t defend yourself.  That just creates more argument.  Instead, make them feel heard and understood.  Ten minutes of venting can really help their negative feelings get released.   Letting your ex vent all over you a time or two after a break up can help them to let go of anger and move back towards more kindly feelings towards you.

There is more to this process, but supporting your ex in “spilling” and releasing their negative feelings can be a vital part in getting them to take you back into their life.  Feelings change, and you want to help their negative feelings change as fast as you can!

You can get a free course here about the specific steps to making up with your ex

Using a hidden GPS tracker is a very easy and cost effective way to see where your spouse is spending their time.

Many people think that it is necessary to hire a private investigator (costing thousands of dollars) when you want to know where someone is spending their time. However, if you are willing to put modern technology to work for you can find out the same information without the huge expense of hiring a P.I.

It is now possible to track someone using a small GPS tracking device that uses military satellites to find someone’s location to within feet of there actual position. GPS trackers come in two basic types.

GPS Logger - Think of a logging device as a sort of video recorder that records the locations, speed traveled, time spent at locations and so on. The GPS logging device is extremely helpful if you need to know where your spouse has been spending their time. For verifying that your partner is telling the truth about where they have been this is a great tool. For example your partner is spending time at someone’s house or meeting them at a motel, or says that he/she is working late, with the logger you will know exactly where he/she has been and for how long. This is a very small device and completely self contained.

I have used many different models and the most reliable and easiest to use is the Professional Mini Tracker.

Simply use the magnetic mount to hide the GPS tracker under the vehicle or hide it inside. When you are ready to view the information you take it off or out of the vehicle and connect it to a USB port on your computer to download the information. Then you can check the routes and locations of the vehicles using three different formats. You cane even view it on a satellite image. Saving the information on your computer or a CD to use as evidence later is also a good idea.

A real time GPS tracker will be needed if you want to be able to see where the car is without removing the GPS tracker from the vehicle. Keep an eye out for a coming article on real time GPS trackers.

I recollect when my ex better half ended our affair. Things were going wonderfully for over 3 years when all of a sudden I got the call I had been dreading… she only needed to say “We should talk” and I knew completely what was coming next… “I think we should take some space for ourselves”…

I was distraught and bemused. I could not think what to do then - I tried phoning yet she never returned. And it looked like she never got my voice messages aswell. I was a complete wreck and just wished-for somebody to guide me the right way… if there trully was one!

Everything was twisted upside down in the blink of an eye and I didn’t know how come. It was then I started reading… that’s when I found a really interesting idea that had not occurred to me before. Perhaps my ex was concealing a deeper set of emotions and just was covering them up with this poor excuse that “We got to have time”?

Well, I did some added reading and stumbled upon this fellow called James Kern who seemed to know how I was feeling. He mentioned he’d been in my situation before plus that he’d “cracked the code” to getting an ex back. His online video “getting your ex back” pointed out to me WHY the ex had left and this video showed me a total set of blow-by-blow directions to winning my ex back.

In fact, here’s the truth about seprations and winning your ex back in your arms - it IS possible to get back with them. As a matter of fact, it may be as simple as simply saying the right things at the right moment!

James Kern pulled me out off the mess I had got myself in and he’s got a lot to tell you. Find out more on James video here: Get An Ex Back - Click Here!