The Truth About Women And Words In Dating: Have you ever had the experience of a woman telling you something, you taking it at face value, only to discover that she meant something else? Pretty frustrating, huh?
See, women make decisions based on internal feelings in the moment, whereas men tend to take a more literal view of things. Since women use internal feelings as a primary decision making process, they are sensitive to others feelings as well—and will often say something that is designed more not to disturb the other person’s feelings than to express an action she’s about to take.
Here’s what to do: when she says something to you that has an emotional connotation (do you like me, am I fat, you don’t understand me, etc., etc.,) don’t respond on a logical level. Respond in a way that creates the emotional state she wants you to put her in—attraction, uncertainty, and responding to authority.
All she’s asking you to do is change her emotional state to something she would prefer to feel. Sometimes that involves listening, sometimes a naughty comment, sometimes something that makes her laugh, and sometimes a demonstration of authority.
What this does is, allows you to anticipate her behavior, something women crave in a man. Ever heard, “he always knows what I’m thinking?” This is usually said in a dreamy sort of way, because women love a man who knows what she’s thinking, but they can rarely find one.
So, if you master this skill (and it’s really easy to do), you’ll be known as that rare guy who “knows women.”
It’s NOT About “Dating”…
Want to know a sure-fire way to fail with women? Ask one on a “date”—you’ll be done before you start. How do I know? Because I tested it over and over and over, and every time I went on a traditional “date,” I never saw her again.
Why does this happen? The answer is simple: every guy asks a woman on a date, and if she goes on one with you, you’re just another guy (a JAG). Women don’t want JAG’s—they want a guy who’s different, a guy who creates attraction. Dating is also a very structured, uncomfortable ritual—you dress nicely, bring her flowers, go eat at a swanky restaurant, all the while wondering if you’re going to “get some.” Then at the end of the night, you wonder if you’re going to “get a kiss.” After it’s over you call your friends, and she calls hers to evaluate the whole ordeal.
So, don’t date, discover!
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