When it comes to picking up women there are some key factors that you need to consider. The last thing you want to do is get rejected. Rejection does nothing for your confidence and can curtail future approaches due to the fear of being rejected once again.
The goal before you make any approach is to look for signals. If you see a girl you like attempt to make eye contact. If you both catch one another’s gaze for a short period of time this could prove positive.
If she looks at you then looks away then looks back this is a signal of interest. To test this even further you could walk in her direction, if she is with friends and stops what she is doing then looks at you this once again implies interest.
You can say at this point that she is showing interest and as a result is open to your attention. No matter how many signals you get at some point you will need to make the approach.
To do so you can get closer in proximity, if you catch her eye again smile and see what response you get. If it is positive then its time to say “Hi”, you do not need all those cheesy chat up lines; it has been proven time and again that a simple “hi” is the perfect opener.
When chatting at first do not ask personal questions, if she is with friends do not ignore them. Introduce yourself; they after all may be the final judge. Listen to what she has to say, look at the body language, get her talking and most importantly make her comfortable.
